You`ve been talking on the telephone with him for some time; you’ve exchanged some text messages too. Eventually, both of you have decided it’s the right time to meet and know each other in person. Given that your first meeting translates to your first gay date, you must prepare fully in advance.
How exactly do you prevent your first gay date from being a major flop?
The sole reason for writing this article is to prepare you and thus ensure that your first gay date will be awesome and even bring forth the possibility of another one! Read on for more…
Without wasting time, let`s dive into the detailed advice:
Set an appropriate venue and time
Any place is not the right place for your fist gay date. A place that provides a favorable environment for communication is the ideal venue. This venue gives you enough time to get to know each other more. And the time? Keep it as short as 1-2 hours- this is a good duration to weigh your partner and see if both of you are compatible.
Keep your expectations low
Why is this necessary? Simply, if you go to the date with a list of expectations in your mind, you might be disappointed and loose interest quickly after discovering that your boyfriend doesn’t meet most (if not all) of them. It’s, therefore, advisable to draw your expectations after you’ve met him.
Be attentive all along
Another great way of ensuring that your date goes along well and even bores a second one is attentive to him throughout. To be attentive, you`ve to maintain an appropriate body posture, listen carefully and even ask questions where necessary. Also, avoid taking alcohol as it may alter your behavior and frustrate your boyfriend.
Your first date should NOT be held at the movies/dinner
You want to get as much information as possible from him, right? Setting your venue to be at a restaurant or theater limits the conversation, no doubt! After all, how will you communicate with your mouth full of food? Or how will you pay attention to your boyfriend while the movie is very interesting and draws all your attention? An environment that favors communication between the two of you is the key to a successful first gay date.
Imagine dressing in some casual wear, and your boyfriend turns up dressed in a suit? That makes no sense at all. Furthermore, it makes you uncomfortable during the date. When deciding on what to wear, it’s important to have a slight idea how your partner will be dressed.
It’s possible to lose your partner after the first date. On the contrary, you can get your life gay partner at your first date. How well you prepared for the day makes all the difference. Would you like to please your partner on the first date and make it a major success? If yes, all you need to do is take the advice given above!