Have you been thinking about your ex of late? Do you feel like you want to date her again? While this might sound good if you give second chances, you must understand that dating your ex is a very different topic. You know your ex inside out, you’ve shares a romantic past and so on…
Before giving it a second try, here is all you need to know:
What was the cause of the break-up?
Your partner became your ex because you broke up with her. That said, there is that a good reason that happened. You need to go carefully through this issue and see whether you can work on it and improve it.
What mistakes did you make in the first relationship?
No relationship is perfect. You might have done several mistakes that frustrated your ex. If you’re ready to get your ex back, you wouldn’t like to feed her with more disappointments. Why don’t you list these mistakes and work towards improving them?
Is it love that drives you back to your ex?
Such a good question. Before getting overly crazy about getting your ex back, stop and do simple self-test. Is it the love that you still feel for your ex that makes you want to go back? Or is it jealousy, sex or other benefits? If your reason isn`t based on love, simply quit and save your ex and yourself for another heartache.
Is the feeling mutual?
Now this is the turning pint. Does your ex-want get you back as well? Is he/she happy in a new relationship? If your ex is not interested in rekindling the relationship, it’s time to let go off completely and focus on moving on. This is because, even if you managed to snatch your ex from their current relationships, you might not be happy afterwards. Love will flow from one side only, yours to be precise while the side remains dormant. The end results? More and more frustrations.
It’s not bad to date your ex. However, start with an extensive self-evaluation and find out if you’re very ready for this. Again, you must know these things fully before strolling to the past: reason for breakup, mistakes you made in your relationship, whether you still love your ex and of course you must know if your ex-feels the same for you.